Caught up
I think people now tend to rush into relationships without the basic foundations to make a good one last. It’s more to do with an idea, of how an ideal relationship for them would be, & not with who it may be with, I think that’s today’s mentality.
Before even assessing whether someone is worth it, or even if it would work, people already have the “I want us to work” mentality without even putting in the effort or the background with the “significant” other.
Slow down, take your time, if you don’t date them and you two really have a spark going what’s the rush? If you went to sleep tonight not making them “yours” they’ll still be there in the morning won’t they?
Enjoy it while you can, pace yourself, slow down and take it as it goes, that way you guys will have built a proper background and a strong foundation to fall back on, even if you guys don’t work out, you’ll always be special to the other person.
Everyone’s too caught up in having that special person, “make you mine” as quick as possible, and then figure it out from there, just something out there, experience is good, but for every “boyfriend” you have under your belt, makes you a bit less appealing. And for every “girlfriend” you boys have, it shifts your status that much more to being a “player”
Just remember even the tallest and strongest of structures, rely on having built a strong foundation.
